Who’s afraid of chages?!?!
The one thing about life that we can always be sure of is that there will be changes.
THAT is one the only things we can be sure that will happen in our lives. Some of them are good, some not so good… some awful to tell the truth. Some of which we have no control what-so-ever others that web bring uppon ourselves and others with a purpose…
The very fact that you are breathing in this earth today means you are bound to change something… To change someone. You and I are that unique variable for million of equations.
Changes can be scarry… and they can make you feel like you are trying to keep your balance while standing on a wall… not knowing to what side you will fall.
I am scared of changes. I guess it is because I’ve been through so many drastic ones in my life that all I want is to live a boring and uneventful one. OK, that’s a lie… the last thing I want is to live an uneventful life, but as of late I wish I could have eventful without the changes events bring with them.
We’re about to have another kid… That = MAJOR changes.
And I am the nearly 30 y/0 that has no idea what he is going to do whan he grows up. Decisions must be made and from them new plans need to be drawn up… And I am the worse person ever when the subject is following up on decisions I’ve taken.
We have a few plans and a few options from which to choose from. Each of them will mean a HUGE change. Changes that will affect a lot more poeple than just me and Vic, Tommy and the lil one that’s on his/her way.
We’ve been procrastinating saying that we still have time to decide (I might not be the only one afraid of changes)…
I think THAT’s is why I am so aprehensive… I don’t know where I am standing… And with that I have no idea if I am fighting to build something in vain. I wish business were going at plain sail… this way at least I’d know one thing for sure.
I think I need a clear(er) heading…
I think we’ll be having a serious talk in our household this evening…
Damn… I hate having to deal with so many variables!!!
How do YOU deal with changes when they come???
zya!
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I’m not good with change… I don’t deal well with plans for the day changing (bad morning this morning when one minute Mr H was up top going out and the next he had a headache and we weren’t going anywhere!).
I get quite anxious when we have big changes in our loves, the arrival of the munchkin was ok, but us moving to a new town a few months later was hard.
I hope your plans and options come clear to you all, and it’s not too stressful.
I changed job last year. I needed/wanted a change so did somthing about it. As the start day drew ever closer I kept worrying about whether I had made the right decision. Turns out it has been a great move. Even on the difficult days.
30 was so much scarier than 40. I still think I haven’t grown up and feel abou 18 on the inside most days.
Look at pros and cons and don’t discount your gut x instincts – they’re usually right.
Good luck with it
First of all CONGRATULATIONS!
For me, I can’t initiate change. I prefer to just plod along. But when a change is thrust upon me, then I thrive.
I guess I am motivated by stress. Hmmmm, probably not a good thing right?